Four Ways to Help Elderly Family Members Ensure Care

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I've been a client of Suzanne's for almost a decade and, with flexibility and compassion, she has worked with me to adapt my plan to meet my expectations. I trust her advice and highly recommend her services.


I had a unique opportunity to observe Suzanne's interactions with a diverse group of colleagues over a year of her participation in Leadership Montgomery and based on that I choose her to prepare my estate plan and to advise me about the process. She is a good listener who is well-respected by her peers for her thoughtful insights and assessments. I decided to retain her to prepare my own estate plan and felt she handled my case with competence and integrity, making the process very comfortable and easy for me.


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Ms. Simpson was our attorney helping us form a will and all the related documents that are important when you have a child -- and even when you don't. What can I say? She has it in all areas. First and foremost, she is an honest person and I always feel she is focused on giving us the best advice. She is highly knowledgeable and continues to go to seminars and keep up with the latest changes in the law -- of which there are many! Her service is impeccable: prompt, calling back ASAP, polite. And in all the while I have known her, she has never made any reference to any client. So I know my own info will be kept private. And her compassion is true, something you need and want when dealing with life and death issues.


Suzanne was easy to work with and very knowledgeable. She explained advantages and disadvantages of optional language and was very helpful in developing our wills, health directives and powers of attorney.

--Wills client

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Far too often, elders do not have their affairs in order in time, leaving heirs or caregivers to try to sort out what should happen with accounts, property, or medical decisions. Or elders outlive their heirs or friends and have no one to turn to in a time of need. Here are just a few tips for helping your elderly friends or family members make sure they are taken care of in terms of legal items during their most vulnerable times.

Choose a Medical Agent

Not only should a person's medical wishes be recorded, but a medical or health care agent should also be named. Typically, the agent is identified in a durable power of attorney. The medical agent would be responsible for making decisions on the elderly person's behalf once that person is judged to be incapacitated, whether due to dementia, accident, or illness. This person must be chosen carefully and would ideally be a trusted family member or close friend. The agent may also have to make end-of-life decisions, such as allowing life support or providing "do not resuscitate" instructions based on the elderly person's wishes.

Create a Financial Checklist or Plan

Medical care can become expensive. It's better to sit down and discuss a financial plan sooner rather than later if one has not already been created. Does your elderly family member have enough to ensure their care? If not, what else is needed? If they have created a trust, are there enough funds to fuel the trust? Have they made decisions about divisions of assets or what might be done with bank accounts, retirement benefits, or other financial items? You can help your elderly relative tackle these questions and more by creating a financial checklist or plan of what needs to be addressed, what decisions have been made, and what still needs to be done1. These decisions can then be discussed with a lawyer as needed when creating legal paperwork.

Ensure Paperwork is in Order

Without legal paperwork, agents and caregivers may have to guess about the elderly person's wishes for their care, or use their own best judgment in making decisions based on what they know of the person. Having the paperwork in order is the best way to make sure that a person's health care, financial, and legal wishes are recorded and enforceable. In the situation of ensuring care for an elder, such documents might include powers of attorney, wills, trusts, and/or other medical documents.

Avoid Guardianship

It is much more common for a person to have named an agent to make decisions on their behalf once he or she becomes incapacitated. However, by waiting too long to name agents or get paperwork in order, it could become necessary for the court to step in and appoint a guardian if a person has become incapacitated. The guardian would then be able to make financial and/or health care decisions on that person's behalf. Guardianship tends to occur when the family has a dispute or disagreement over how decisions should be made for the elderly family member.2 This is more likely to be avoided if legal paperwork has already been created, such as establishing a living will, durable power of attorney, or trust document that names agents and records the family member's wishes in regards to their care.

Talk to your elderly family members or friends today and begin the process to ensure their wishes for their care are recorded.

1"Legal Documents." Accessed March 22, 2016. Alzheimer's Association.

2"Prepare to Care: A Planning Guide for Families." Accessed March 22, 2016. AARP. _/articles/foundation/aa66r2_care.pdf.